1.
“I
don't
understand
why
we
have
to
fight
about
everything!
Can't
we
just
love
each
other
and
be
happy?”
【frustrated】
2.
“You
never
listen
to
me!
It's
like
you
don't
care
about
my
feelings
at
all.
”
【ignored】
3.
“I
feel
like
we're
on
different
wavelengths.
I
say
one
thing
and
you
hear
something
completely
different.
”
【misunderstood】
4.
“Why
do
you
always
have
to
be
right?
Can't
you
see
that
sometimes
you
make
mistakes
too?”
【defensive】
5.
“I
hate
it
when
you
shut
down
and
refuse
to
talk
to
me.
Communication
is
key
in
any
relationship.
”
【disconnected】
6.
“Why
do
you
keep
bringing
up
the
past?
We
should
be
focusing
on
the
future.
”
【resentful】
7.
“You're
always
so
quick
to
judge.
Can't
you
try
to
understand
where
I'm
coming
from?”
【judgmental】
8.
“I
can't
stand
it
when
you
make
me
feel
guilty
for
something
that
wasn't
even
my
fault.
”
【blamed】
9.
“I
wish
you
would
just
give
me
the
benefit
of
the
doubt
instead
of
assuming
the
worst.
”
【distrusted】
10.
“Why
do
you
always
have
to
be
so
stubborn?
Sometimes
it's
okay
to
admit
when
you're
wrong.
”
【unyielding】
11.
“I
just
want
you
to
show
me
that
you
love
me.
It's
not
enough
to
just
say
the
words.
”
【unloved】
12.
“I
feel
like
you're
more
interested
in
being
right
than
in
resolving
our
issues.
”
【competitive】
13.
“Can't
we
just
agree
to
disagree
and
move
on?”
【reconciliatory】
14.
“I'm
tired
of
fighting
all
the
time.
It's
exhausting
and
it's
not
how
I
want
to
spend
my
time
with
you.
”
【weary】
15.
“I
don't
want
to
keep
score
of
who's
right
and
who's
wrong.
Let's
focus
on
finding
a
solution
together.
”
【collaborative】
16.
“I
hate
it
when
you
brush
off
my
feelings
and
act
like
they
don't
matter.
”
【dismissed】
17.
“I
wish
you
would
just
take
responsibility
for
your
actions
instead
of
blaming
everything
on
me.
”
【unaccountable】
18.
“Sometimes
I
feel
like
you're
more
interested
in
winning
than
in
finding
a
solution
that
works
for
both
of
us.
”
【competitive】
19.
“I
love
you,
but
I
can't
keep
living
like
this.
We
need
to
find
a
way
to
work
through
our
problems.
”
【concerned】
20.
“No
matter
what
happens,
I'll
always
love
you.
But
we
need
to
learn
how
to
communicate
better
and
find
common
ground.
”
【devoted】